You should always have a sabbath.
Sunday, April 30, 2023
Thursday, April 27, 2023
Lest You Be Judged
First off let me remove this plank from my eye so I can type clearly because the subject matter is always what it is, subjective until we show objective.
What is your objective?
"Don't judge me and my choice, that's not your place. It's God that will Judge me, not you measly human."
Is there condemning in judgment?...wait, they weren't done...
"...or I will condemn you!"
This is not a court of law, this is a House of God.
There seems to be confusion between the words, judge and condemn, or was it just hey, that's a mistake and is gonna have consequences. I have a little secret to tell you, judging someone isn't wrong, it's necessary. To judge is to discern right from wrong, good from bad, beautiful from ugly. They condemn themselves with their actions; this is where you start looking around.
Judging if something is good or bad is a necessity in life. It's called.........wait for it........ judgment.
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'lest ye be judged'
I think this teaching is being used against you. Ones behavior is and should be judged, ones actions do and should be judged, how else do you know if you can trust someone? Seriously? I know I can not trust a man disguised as a whorish woman that wants to be around children. Holy shit balls...that one is easy peasy. I also know I can not trust a man that pretends to be a woman...easy peasy again and I know I can not trust an adult that uses a child as a weapon; these things are as poisonous as...........wait for it..........the fruit from the tree of Good and Evil...for when there is no discernment Evil reigns. When a disingenuous person enters the conversation with Catholic Priest pedos, yes, the problem is bad but the priests aren't in control of the children, the teachers and therapists are, then turn your back on them...they aren't trust worthy.
I'm told beauty is subjective and in the eye of the beholder...An outside can be beautiful but rotting inside from hate and envy. A woman that has had acid thrown on her face, is beautiful to someone. How we are, how we move, how we interact can be beautiful or ugly...
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...denying beauty and insisting you accept ugly as beautiful is not the same as above. If you can not tell the difference you are either denying or have no ability to discern, that is a problem. Modern art is a perfect example and people with good taste know this. If something smells bad, it in all chances is...don't 'nuance' this and say something about a stinky cheese or durian...get up and leave the table and don't come back, this is a serious conversation and you are not helping, you are a road block.
Take each thing for what it is and if you can discern the good from bad, please speak up.
I often sound judgmental because to some they don't know the difference between judging and condemning. I do not condemn, you do that with your own action or non action and time takes care; life isn't fair and everything works out in the wash.
You've been taught wrong. If your eyes and ears can not discern good from bad long term and short term consequences too...that's why we all have this mess...from the schools to the economy to families turned to ruins...not enough judgment and speaking up.
They are literally taking advantage of you because you either deny discernment or have no idea what I am talking about.
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Kintsugi
Who is your model for behavior? for life?
...What do you think drag queen story hour is? It is modeling behavior. Let me correct that...drag queen story hour...grown men dressed like whoreish women reading stories to children. Great idea morons.
This is how bad it is...6 people were murdered at a school in Tennessee and the killer is being called a victim by the mentally deranged. They say "take away guns!" because that is what they have been taught. It's classic abuser/tyrannical behavior; they* kill people, we see it and say it, they become the victim because they are afraid someone will hurt them in return for killing people so they throw a temper tantrum because children throw temper tantrums.
It's leftists youngins', The Red Guard that put you through a trial of contrition and the rainbow hand condemns you. You know I'm correct. The saddest part is that they have no idea they are being used and will be tossed away when no longer needed.
What a mother knows the child does not. When the mother controls, the child will rebel. Free will with clear guidance and boundaries that expand with time and learning.
The big problem is actually easy peasy to fix. I have the answer...you ready for this...
you are in control of you
you are not an automaton
you actually don't have to follow the path of bad behavior lest you be judged
World domination is a heavy theme but in reality it's just as heavy as a feather or a ton of bricks in space, because that's what it is. I believe world domination can come when people see themselves for who they are and find their self correct code.
I'm going to repeat myself with different choice words...
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I wonder how many of you know that we are actually in a battle of good and evil? You need to see it and stop denying it.
Discernment is rare.
If you can't discern the truth, fact, goodness and beauty before your eyes vs a lie, rot, ugly or danger, or a half truth right before your eyes then you might want to start opening your eyes. This strange Protest-ant culture of yours that has no tradition to hold on too was easy to take over. There are no consequences for your actions, or haven't you noticed that about your belief system. He gave himself so you could be free but you don't live under his Fathers commandments, yet you worship his son, a man. You do not kneel before the alter and you should. You wear jeans and a t-shirt in your holy sites because God should respect you? This is basic, from time eternal. Peter and Paul at Antioch.
You can't discern that a person in a lab coat might mean you harm as they say, 'no you can't get your paycheck until I inject you with this substance that will most likely cause you harm in some manner to which ever degree your body sees fit'. "I'm in lab coat, it's ok." "I'm a Doctor, I know what I'm doing"-many doctors don't know what they are doing...I don't give a shit if I hurt your feelings because you thought you knew what you were doing and I pointed out you don't. Modern medicine is doing more harm to society than Disney...but go give them your $'s.
I actually don't think people know what is really happening.
You deny beauty and put on the pedestal a lie and worship it.
the celebration of death
a life never lived
the wind did spin through time
and on the bed did the lie meet them self
the naked truth
If you are reading this and are not speaking up because you are scared...it will get worse if you don't. Staying quiet and not talking about what equity really means and how diversity is not what they say it means is dangerous. You can't pretend it's not in your company. There are wars on our doorstep. An asshole would call me paranoid for saying this out loud because they are scared and powerless and that is how they want you. You are not powerless. The plan is not one of peace. Climate change is happening but climate does not mean earthly it means the climate of economic order.
When you stopped buying bud light because they hired a dude in a dress to advertise you didn't hurt anyone. This is called the destruction of capitalism.
Wednesday, April 26, 2023
4/26
Wanna go on a walk with me as I type out loud and I think critically?
I'm gonna roll the dice of some brain barf that someone might see...as the mind clicks as I hit as many switches to get it working in good order...
What are the goals we are told? I'm just gonna shout out a fewish.
How do they get us where they want us?-as a human population and populations.
Net zero carbon; that's so dumb, I can't believe anyone thinks this is good or that's what they mean...they mean for you, you know it secretly right? You just feel powerless so you ignore it? They track all your 'carbon usage' already. The more you say you can't do anything about it the more you can't. What do you have control of?
One World Order...Order; humans are extremely easy to order because they are manipulatable. Psychiatrist much? How many people think themselves to be independent thinkers is like asking someone if they are a good driver. It'll be easy pickins. You should put your mask back on.
The 15 min city is real, please don't pretend it's not. The capitol was gated in and surrounded by National Guard Units pointing outward at you and then they closed down businesses and if you 'nuance' this by saying no one forced it or it wasn't the federal government then you are dense and don't deserve a seat at the table; If we were solving a math problem I would make sandwiches for everyone.
I think I add this here...'They sure did reach their agenda 2021 goals smoothly'; could it have possibly helped having a lock down...hmmmm.....let's think about it. Are you ready for 2030...2050? of course not...How many recent trends have you gone along with because you didn't want to rock the boat. The boat is going under because you all went too far to one side...is it too late? I see rainbow flags flying in Protest-ants church's...Enders Games is funnier now to me when I marry it with God instructions to level the earth of the heathens, do you worship a man or God? I ask again.
"You can't know what's in someones heart Kristin." The fuck you say...this is such a simple tiny little thing to grasp...your protest-ant religion says, 'go forth and multiply'...not kill them before they are born and spade and neuter the young...I can't believe I'm saying this again; I do wish the Messiah was around the corner or your revelations was about to happen...such a simple tiny little thing but it is the most important thing. It is something that is in the care of a mother because of her actions, her prize, her gift of life. Baby murder is not safe or rare and is not 'health care' if they just killed a person. Yes, a baby is a real person, meek with no voice; don't worry, not for a loss, they harvest that little baby for her parts. Great job people. Maybe you can take a pill that our super friendly neighborhood pharmacist came up with to kill the baby inside you, it's less messy that way, super convenient and certainly one less mouth to feed. I'm sure it's safe and effective...how many side effects did it list? risk of mothers death not just child...is that on there? Doctors give these pills with out verification of pregnancy, super safe and solid. Great Doctoring doctors...great peopling and such. Our doctors doctor via data and consensus...not health and individual. Did your doc tell ya you would birth a baby in a toilet? Some one should tell you the truth.
The UN 'build back better' 75th anniversary was a site most don't know even happened. It doesn't matter you think?...it matters friendO. T.I.A...used to mean T.his I.s A.frica because of all the corruption...now it's T.his I.s A.merica....Hunter Biden says What?...Who are the Marionettist's? (I had to look that up, I knew there was another name for a puppeteer, sofa=couch, cocktail table=coffee table, woman=female/adult.
The UAP's are not alien UFO's, I'm at 89%. I wish just they were they just aren't now. Or are they....? That is a joke but it could be a time bending thing...bending time is not hypothetical or theoretical.
Special Ops; the theme was and is Perception is Reality while you learn to peel a shrimp while holding a plate, napkin and a glass; white wine spritzer is the best choice. When Osama Bin Laden was taken they flew in to Pakistan 2 Stealth Black Hawks. One of the stealth helicopters, low observable by radar, tail hit the compound wall when they were 'going in' that's how we discovered* some new stealth stuff and on a helicopter too..."surprise surprise surprise"...Vegas much? Why do I bring up this up? This was our high tech...I'm not saying it's not high tech, we just don't have anti-gravity? machines...the word anti-gravity wording is primitive when discussing these matters this stuff.
I don't believe a word they put out, say or put in your minds. "VoodooWarriors mount up!"
Holograms and layered light...duh, all lasers are light. Laser is acronym for Light Amplification by Stimulated Emission of Radiation. Sometimes that tiny bit of extra information will click a switch in your mind, a reminder of something you have forgotten. What can be programmed into a radar system?
harvest your childs mind of data
harvest your childs mind of morals
harvest your childs mind of civility
harvest your childs mind of logic
harvest your childs mind of reason
harvest your childs minds health
Do you dismiss this because I left out the apostrophe on childs...the child does not belong to you in a communist commune, the child is owned. A child belongs to parents. A child is owned by a government. The State only has what it takes from you. ...did they make* you put an experimental drug in your body so you could earn a living? In some places you weren't allowed even into a grocery store if you didn't have the experimental jab...If you don't like me talking about it because you found out you made a bad choice and listened to experts* and not the people they were censoring; it's like you don't know how they play this game.
When all you do is watch what they put in front of you then you are being f. e. d.
What happened at that concert in Vegas?
Why did that guy in Nashville blow up and AT&T building and didn't kill anyone...?
Our $ is tanking; was it really worth anything? It's way past time for honesty when they are going to knee cap those with good credit and loan capital* to those that have proven to be a risk...let's give clean needles to drug users so they stay safe and won't get aids. If you think the people that do experiments on whole populations is going to tell you the truth and give you good advise...put your mask on to stop a virus that is smaller than a cell way which I don't know if ya know is smaller than the fabric weave...go ahead.
They are purposely pushing violence; It obvious when they prosecute self defense and let offenders walk away. If you think the State can't take your guns because of 2A let's talk about options they have. The State has used chemical and ordnance weapons upon its citizens in the past. They release violent criminals on unsuspecting citizens in truth. From chaos comes order?...there really is no question mark there, I add it for flare.
a. Here in Colorado, some kids moronic teacher that was educated* so well they think they deserve to have their student loans repaid by everyone else...the fuck you say...you must not see how this works, oh that's right, you are educated in wanting and blame can issue a red flag, or an administrator...Superb idea I must say...we should also put the mental ill idiots in charge of education and health. Fuck this shit is what you should be saying to yourself. As they harvest your childs mind and soul. They should probably take your weapons away if you say anything extremist, "I don't believe it's right and good and proper to kill a child in Utero." "I don't think and believe it is right and good and proper to lie to a child about who they are." How do you protect yourself from the State made criminals running the streets if the childs school therapist deems you a threat because you don't believe in their religion? Red Flagged is what you get. Don't believe me? some never do...
2. Let's talk weapons systems and tactics...let's talk about what they know about you and how they can see everything you do, hear it...know it before you do-that is a weapons system.. Do you still wanna talk about them? They have every system turned against the citizen.
This isn't a third it's just some info you might not know; at the end of the Cold War We (the royal We) decided to have an enactment, Enduring Stockpile it was called. The FBI raided the Rocky Flats nuclear weapons facility under the guise of eco terrorists then proceeded to abscond with nuclear weapons...don't worry about it...you can trust them, they are just regular people like you and me. They are also very transparent, I know this because the State department states so regarding our nuclear capacity. Why wouldn't I believe someone from the US government.
This one world order thing is real; all other western countries have fallen....for true when you step back and look. We are the only ones with guns...small town minds think they are safe. Our whole worlds were turned upside down because of a virus they made to attack us...are people not allowed to talk about this in polite society or something? Ahhhh...yes...it's you admitting you still take all the drugs the drug company sells you...you are still listening to your allopathic dr and your dr of education and your dr of some religious studies that has no idea how to live their own life in goodness?
But you know that the state has all media on lock down, that's everything you see...from box lite items...
What about the sky? does the Air Force control that too? Lights, camera action from space it comes
Where do you fall in all of this? What part are you playing?
The Lady of Fatima wishes to know what 100-89 is?
Monday, April 24, 2023
Thursday, April 20, 2023
The Planets Aligned
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The wind on the drive up was atrocious; dirt and debris were flying though the air. Signs spun missing us barely while we listened to K-pop and discussed music theory...of course Pythagoras comes up, the parts of cult and the harp because they are important too, not just that which they think makes everything exact. Pythagoras wasn't making things up out of thin air (thoughts do live in the air though), just like todays philosophers they reach back into the past to discover more as did Pythagoras...We discussed sound vibration and mood manipulation. Brain function/mood manipulation is easy to understand. We can learn to cross fire neurons between hemispheres easier with proper wave functions with the help of sound (vibration). With practice it becomes nature, it's getting back to nature and knowing your own power. What most don't consider is the damage dissonant sounds do not just harm a mood but can cause damage to the brain also by damaging neuron firings.
LoveBug says to me, "Mom, you actually aren't normal."
"Of course I am, I'm the most normal person in the world."
He replies, "You think you can solve big problems."
I know that big problems are easy to solve it's the individual ones that are difficult, because correction is up to the individual and if you blame others with never seeing your own fault the correction can't be made...Also only the individual can make the correction, no one else can do it for you. How can you see no blame when you aren't honest about other people, so I know you aren't honest about your self.
To be self reflective and honest takes a lot of courage; when you can see who you really are you can make course corrections. You do this not because someone demands it of you but because you can see the consequences of your behavior far down the road. I can't worry that people refuse to see them selves so they can not correct character traits that should be bred out. We teach proper behavior with modeling.
World domination is a heavy theme to most but in reality it's just as heavy as a feather or a ton of bricks in space, because that's what it is. World domination would only come when people see themselves for who they are and find their self correct code...until then we will have rulers by any other name, tyrants, and committees, human resources and public political health authorities...
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I actually don't think people know what is really happening.
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Be still and listen
One day I will tell you a story
That planet alignment was incredible but you might not see the universe as a whole and might not feel the direct pushes and pulls...you know it's there.
She Will Come For You
spin you here
spin you there
twist the sounds
till you can't bear
I may be a witch but God is my Father.
You may think me Pagan because I see and know of Angels and Saints, Demons and Devils by many names; I know they are all the same given a perspective knowledge. Yes I do believe in all of this...before Rome, steeped in smoke, gathered on the steps of Antioch to the Children of God Our Father while others played a dangerous game. This was long before Jesus enters the picture. To understand the foot steps of man that walked in those paths and all their beliefs of time beyond; then you find out time is mbendable it's history that is not.
My God says I'm responsible for my own actions, good and bad; there is no reward for doing Good...you just do Good...but bad the 3 fold comes for you; scientific karma...the consequences of your actions today have rippling effects in time.
I worship no man.
I carry no mans dogma. (I am not sworn to carry your burdens...that is a Skyrim joke, a biblical one, and a don't put your racism on me joke.)
Believing in God Our Father does not mean you have forgiveness for all sins.
Wanna know a really great PsyOp?
This all sounds retarded to someone that doesn't know we are in a religious war and it's fucking crazy balls. How I grew up is pertinent to the story...My religious back ground simply put is...the Sultan of Oman requested allowed a Priest from the Vatican to educate us in an absolute Muslim ruled land where we had the freedom to practice our religion under the guise of the Sultans birthday (Christmas). It was against the law to have pork products and we had armed guards on our compound roof tops...as our parents fought communism. We were schooled in Ayn Rand and tested on it. On a whole other side of the planet...my Grandmothers taught me the ways, one of the Earth the other of the Spirit. Fyi...I don't think I'm the crazy one.
Our government is literarily ...I fucking despise using that word anymore... shoving communist bullshit down your throats and insisting you swallow it. You have to deny God when you use someone's 'preferred pronouns"...I can't believe I have to fucking explain this to grown adults...you all focus on the 'bible' and not the old book where the lessons are...you got half a story gathered by those who in all the well intentions gathered what was convenient for them You can enter the protestant reformation here too...and we know this now. This is like theories taught in school as fact but in reality a failed mumbo jumbo...and it's ok? Communism is the removal of God from your life. It's you a slave to the State. They don't teach this in schools because this is their 'soulution', always get the kids away from the parents and turn them against the parents. I still can't believe I have to explain this. They want your children to be wards of the state. Some parents can see this, some can not...the same comparison in a current era theme would be, 'Do you want a daughter or a dead son?' pretending those are the only options...go along with the sterilization of your child or we will encourage your child to kill themselves because we have them intertwined in a cult mindset. We are talking about someones Child that has had their mind captured, and they think it's funny that someone like me says this stuff but I know the children are only used as long as they are needed from a State stand point...I hope you know that too. That is the truth. You can not affirm* something that is not true or you are lying. Oh, that's right you took those 10 rules given to us by God Our Father down...it's so much more awesome when you don't have to 'play' by those rules...but those rules are a necessity to a good ordered society, one where you can be free the Golden Rule requires a Golden Rod. This is a Utopia, we all know Jesus died on the cross so you could be forgiven for all your sins...does your skin itch yet? So you can do what ever you want... heaven awaits you...and revelations is around the corner...you can feel it in your hallow bones riddled with diseases from the poisons you ate. Too much? Super judgey? Maybe, just maybe you don't judge well at all or you are weak, if you are weak there is no getting out of the way.
Where do I say God is a God of vengeance? I keep hearing of this God of Love, Jesus, that preached forgiveness and ate at the table of the sinner and forgave everyone he came across...they would have you believe he partook of sin...this the most perfect man I am told born of a virgin birth so you should not worry yourself about someone else's doings...Accept everyone for who they say they are, oh, can you affirm* them out loud so your God can hear you denounce Him? Make sure your house of worship has the correct flag flying...for all that was holy...was it really ever holy?...or was it all an illusion? When you find out will you shun this because you don't know the difference between right and wrong, good and bad any more? Mutilating Children is wrong, everyone knows this. It's State policy...Federal and Colorado. Don't worry though...if you don't accept this behavior and affirm* it there are a multitude of avenues to come at ya..."Survey says?!" What was that big tax fight He had with the Empire? "I say Empire you say ____"? How many peoples did God Our Father command to be completely flattened because of exactly what is happening now?...I'm not spitting truth or dropping a mic...you know what you see before you is blaspaphy and you don't have a fucking back bone to say it. Hook, Line, and center through the Overton window they threw you...or did you jump thinking it was safer and your God of love and forgiveness for direct sin would have no probs with you sterilizing the children?..."..."Go forth and multiply." If I'm correct, "Sterilize you Children" is the opposite...and here is this one... I think it's fucking crazy hilarious to hear, 'christian' woman discuss abortion...it fucking blows my mind, an easy, 'yeah, I'm just gonna kill my offspring because I got knocked up doing what everyone else is doing and it doesn't matter, if it's early there is a pill if not at least I know I'm safe while they kill my baby.' How many futures murdered? Oh your company will pay for it? How sweet of them. You think some State employee is going to treat you well at the home you get put in when you can't wipe yourself? You are a fucking moron...Oh...a robot? That might be over the top plus they want way less people on the planet if you haven't forgotten and...they want complete control.
Spin spin spin
some more
twist the words
to tell the tale
Meanwhile when will the third temple be built?
They really did insist you cover your nose, even smart people did it...I'm the zealot because I understand particle size?
The teach this religion in schools.
The Christian Right believes that given all likely hood the end of times is near so there is no need to fight back. This is where the teachings have been used against you, they do it all the time...you are super weak minded, most of the Lot of you. It's easy to get you to follow...
the donkey brayed
the lion roared
the cobra reared her head into the sky
Meanwhile in Gujarat's Rajkot district in India a faithful couple have properly and successfully made their offer for Shiva to rise.
...but what do I know...
Be still and listen
One day I will tell you a story
...and a please I hope you understand what I am saying in the fullest.
When in Rome we do as the Romans. How far does Rome reach. Is Rome a place or a way? At our core of our being we always know who we truly are what robe that covers us in a style of a place does not make us what we are.
Spinning back into the machine the wind blows you
South Africa is one model
Romania is one model
Cambodia is one model
France is a model
East Germany is one model
England is a model
Scotland is a model
New Zealand is a model
Australia is a model
Canada is a model
You think your vote counts?
What is your dollar worth?
Does the State seem there to protect you or criminalize you?
Monday, April 10, 2023
Sweeping Generalizations
Here are some sweeping generalizations because in general this is what it is, it is not an outlier.
If the teachers and schools are bad why are you hiring more from the same places? The Universities put out what they want your children to learn. If you haven't noticed it's some horrendous loads of shit. They are making your children literally sexually retarded imbeciles. They are literally teaching your children to be either a victim or the tyrant based on the colour of their skin or based on some intersection from a communist mapping category game theory of who do you want to terrorize next. They have literally graduated students that have no skills and can hardly read or write. Do you know that when we say reading is fundamental it's because it is. Reading comprehension is a tool, it can teach to decipher right from wrong from stories through time; erase the ability, erase the stories or rewrite them, that is what they are doing. If you fill a malleable childs head with trash with no good role models to follow then they become automatrons who have no value to society except to corrupt it because that is the tool they were taught to wield. So let's hire more teachers from the same place that is teaching your children that they should be respected for accomplishing nothing and having no idea what they are talking about because that is what the school system taught them.
Oh it's the parents job? Don't I wish. In this society you have weaponized child services (probably the purpose). Children today see their parents act fools and call child services on one another...they think it's normal, instead of talking. The children hear the teachers tell them that if someone disagrees or doesn't like what's happening in their home they can come to them and be their safe space. Or you just get called a terrorist by our own Government because we are parenting. The parent has usually said no to a child acting out. S w e e p i n g generalizations panty wearers.
They tell you the teachers and schools need more money. They obviously aren't making improvements so obviously giving them more money isn't going to help if the university system is where they gather their candidates...or am I missing something here...nope. Maybe they need more administrators? to manage a fucked up system and make it even bigger...great idea morons. The money goes to the #communistteachersunion's and new books about new made up theories as they make money off your children...your tax dollars are not being used wisely, they are being funneled into pockets...whose pockets? How much data are they gathering and selling?
Our schools need more therapists because the children are so fucked up because they are in a system that is designed to fuck them up. So hire more therapists...where do therapists get their degrees and training? Who trains these people that tell you that you are a victim not of your actions but all those around you. You aren't responsible, it's your parents' that fucked you up, you can't do anything about that now and you can't change the past and are you really going to stay a victim? Or are you going to say I don't want to ever repeat that behavior that you either see in yourself or in others? Or are you going to model yourself after the woman that takes her children from their father (or the other way around, I can hear someone bitching, 'but men do it too' in a whiny non-helpful voice that makes me think, if he did it to you you might be super cunty.. any way to punish him for probably something she did and he reacted...any one know this one? I'm not saying real shit doesn't happen but I'm going with my 1st sentence, s w e e p i n g generalizations, and it doesn't bother me one bit...they* do it all the time...get in that box you deplorable, get in the box you TERF, get in the box cis normative whatever is the flavor of the moment. It's almost like they teach projection in Universities.
I always laugh when I hear someone has or is getting a degree psychology or therapy. Those are always the most fucked up...and you think they are going to help you manage your shit? I hope they all find help but help actually starts with you personally. I'm talking about normal fucking people...not people with actual issues. Also I do not believe all women; such dumb shit they put in your head.
Look around and see how many people will even SAY if something is bad or distasteful or grotesque or horrifying...
How many people even read?! They literally watch what ever is put in front of them. No wonder no one knows the difference between good and bad, right and wrong, ugly and beauty; it's that lack of discernment again.
I'm not still today
no one is listening
if they were every parent that truly understood what was actually happening would remove them immediately from the den of snakes.
It seems the ability to discern has gone much the lay way.
This is why I am not still. These are the things that happen quietly as they ruin lives.